I’m going to tell a story, with a moral, by way of an analogy we’ve all heard at some point in our lives. Most will know what the moral is within the first sentence, but I stress the importance of saying it anyway being rhetorical utterance, timely experience and wisdom lends itself as an invaluable tool upon its acceptance. likened to when one decides to “read the entirety of the bible within a year” thing for some reason. Not to put down anyone’s inspiration, assignment or spiritual anointment but if one falls for pushing through anything, just to say it’s completed doesn’t mean it was absorbed, understood or even accepted. And if by chance one is challenged (which is actually a guarantee) by the deceiver, I’d suspect that the rushing through for bragging rights or the checking of the box will not fare well. 
 

So, to simplify, this (short) story is about timing, especially in the sense that not all wisdom, advice or knowledge can be received unitarily being we’re all at different stages of our life journey; such is the reiteration of the analogy. 
 

Imagine you’re parachuting above the most beautiful, serene of tropical islands and along comes another, and he’s free-falling, flapping his arms about, taking full advantage of the adrenaline high, while giving you the thumbs up. Only you notice, he has no parachute! And I mean nothing at all but the shirt wailing upon his back.  

So, in reference to frivolous questioning, you check your time and distance from the ground and you’re good. So, you decide to glide over to the guy and yell, dude where’s your parachute? Again, parachute – where is it!? Immediately the guy stopped laughing. 

Quick pause. See, for the guy without a parachute, you asking such a question, in mid free-fall makes no sense whatsoever being, he’s already committed to that jumped. And per the physics of gravity within this reality well, such is universal law. 

The thing is, isn’t that kind of like what we do, right? We find ourselves so consumed with intrigue, drama or even the allurement of frivolous questioning, we often miss the bigger picture, and per our judgement, we jump into that which we hope, aligns with our personal biases? 

One could argue, even within the absence of critical thinking, we should know better but oh the validation of self, whilst proving others to be wrong. Maybe that’s the zeal of frivolous thinking or in this scenario questioning? 
 

See (in my opinion) most aren’t really looking for an answer. Consider this; most may inadvertently be searching for an excuse. An excuse that is, to support their unwillingness to exist with the responsibilities and purposes of life, embedded within their spirit – upon creation.  
 

Which brings me to the conclusion per the previous pause, see the story doesn’t end with the free faller falling to his imminent demise, it ends with you. How so? Allow me to explain.  

The free faller immediately stops smiling, upon you coming over and asking your question, which is twofold. One to aware him – dude!? Secondly, honestly in our heart, deep down, wanting to validate that one of you made the right decision. 

Now to the questioner, it may not appear to be frivolous; such an inquisitive kind heart, I get it. One may be of genuine concern per the man’s circumstance but again, what difference does it make? Well in this analogy, it makes a difference. 

Especially now, because when you look at the free faller for some reason your eyes lock, and per the smirk on his face you instantly become aware, he didn’t stop laughing, flailing about and having a good time because of what you asked, he stopped because he was content per his act to distract you. A distraction so persuasive that by way of your own frivolous attraction to sensationalism, you’d completely forget to pull your chute open in time and thus, indeed it ends with you. 

The moral is, there are a lot of free fallers in this world, whose infernal goal is to take you with them. Now whether they come in the form of old acquaintances, media conglomerates, charismatic politicians or even that minuscule of one, who for some reason always seems to be around, close to your ear, and most opinionated whilst suggesting what he or she feels is best for you, when they themselves have defaulted within a life of void. 

Know that your time and awareness in this present time is invaluable. Please, turn from that which is frivolous and distracting because at some point, your present (within the link of an eye) will become your past; courtesy of that free falling void – which was sent to distract you. 

Godspeed upon your journey. 

By Reginald O’ Gibson 

When I’m down, Kelly lifts my head with patience, and changes my perspective.
When I’m silent, she rests her head against my heart without judgement because she knows my
God given purpose.
When I’m alone in a room filled with people, she finds my hand, whispers into my ear, and
reminds me “we’re on this righteous path together.”

The reasons why our marriage works consists of three constants. Firstly, God’s favor over our
lives. Secondly, that fear is NOT an option; fear only leads to default. And lastly, our love
language consists only of three words; sacrifice, submission and commitment. Anything else is
just legacy. It is in this understanding, that Kelly and I reflect to the best of our abilities, God’s
mercy, favor and love for one another. And as such, my love for Kelly, this woman right here,
my wife; remains unconditional.
– Reginald O’Neal Gibson

A rock is a rock, and a tree is a tree, therefore, accept NOT in question to be or not to be. The very utterance of that which is questioned, renders one to believe in choice, but choice lacking sound mind and body renders only the uninitiated voice. A voice in question falls to the wiles of said belief, only belief is not a fact rather an indoctrinated mindset, withered tree -fallen leaf. Conditioning the mind in such a way, that only vile sensationalistic propaganda rules the conversations of our day. Remember good news, the news of good and the goodness to be, found in the word of God, the word bound within the fruition of life we see. Only, if we are to choose to believe or not believe, that very question in and of itself, is all the deceiver needs. It was once said that curiosity killed the cat but as far as mankind, 70 times 7 cause loss of spirit; you can’t get that back. Lose your faith, change your soul, as one considers alternatives on shelf, stacked lies of disbelief, blind eyes opt options to try and define oneself. (foolish). If words are crossed, least leads to self-cognition, seek belief, choice, and uninitiated to further solidify your position. This is why your faith should stand bold, trust not your eyes to see, because the word of God, is the very essence, of why a rock is a rock and a tree is a tree.  

– Reginald O’ Gibson 

Regardless of any narratives created, I’m not hating anyone; period! We that are of good, are far more plentiful and in unity than the people (currently)holding the mic, camera and or platform would like to admit. Why? Because the rape of ‘supply and demand’ goes hand to hand with divide and conquer, which beckons the need for hate, segregation and fear. Deceitful/demonic entities need is for people to develop a common enemy amongst their neighbors, family and countrymen. And what better, more efficient way of creating anxiety, votes and separatism, than to stimulate and prey upon the indoctrinated biases of mankind’s insecurities. I – will- not – conform – to hate. I know there’s a history. I know there are differences but even more so, I know myself, my purpose and my destiny. I was born in love and I will die in love. And as such, ultimately I will rejoin awe-inspiring love throughout eternity.

God speed upon your journey. – Reginald

• Reginald 

The O&L Team

“Where are we headed? Because we can’t stay here.”

-Reginald

The Meaning  

February 3, 2023  

“To empower her is to honor God and the mystery of the covenant they share. Without her, there is no world of sustainability, no future to claim nor fruition of purpose (within our understanding of time). Likened to a seed placed upon solid rock, there will be no growth, harvest, or fruit to bear as witness to a life of intelligent design and meaning. As men, we are the soil, vast with nutrient, vigor, and foundational strength. As such, never forget to be vulnerable unto her accepted gifts, as well as intuition, and eternal womb. Empower her essence, love her, and protect that which is God’s greatest creation; the woman.”   

– Reginald 

This is not who I am, nor how I look or feel for that matter. It’s just an image. An image captured to stimulate a momentary assumption, based off what the perceiver is willing to accept or deny. It’s just an image. Unlike the curated narratives of media conglomerates, I proclaim nor suggest nothing. I have no agendas, no prophetic analogies nor the zeal to influence anyone. It’s just a picture my wife took on the whelm of a moment, whilst I contemplated the complexities of vegan tacos. If I could derive anything of potential value as a takeaway, it would be the reminder that per the accumulation of one’s actions (not captions, words or intent), are the only true sources of one’s measurable means. Even then, to be brutally honest, you’ll never (truly) know what’s on a person’s mind; especially when tacos adds to the bane of societal complexities.

– Reginald