“Our Love Language”

When I’m down, Kelly lifts my head with patience, and changes my perspective.
When I’m silent, she rests her head against my heart without judgement because she knows my
God given purpose.
When I’m alone in a room filled with people, she finds my hand, whispers into my ear, and
reminds me “we’re on this righteous path together.”

The reasons why our marriage works consists of three constants. Firstly, God’s favor over our
lives. Secondly, that fear is NOT an option; fear only leads to default. And lastly, our love
language consists only of three words; sacrifice, submission and commitment. Anything else is
just legacy. It is in this understanding, that Kelly and I reflect to the best of our abilities, God’s
mercy, favor and love for one another. And as such, my love for Kelly, this woman right here,
my wife; remains unconditional.
– Reginald O’Neal Gibson

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A Rock is a Rock, and a Tree is a Tree 

A rock is a rock, and a tree is a tree, therefore, accept NOT in question to be or not to be. The very utterance of that which is questioned, renders one to believe in choice, but choice lacking sound mind and body renders only the uninitiated voice. A voice in question falls to the wiles of said belief, only belief is not a fact rather an indoctrinated mindset, withered tree -fallen leaf. Conditioning the mind in such a way, that only vile sensationalistic propaganda rules the conversations of our day. Remember good news, the news of good and the goodness to be, found in the word of God, the word bound within the fruition of life we see. Only, if we are to choose to believe or not believe, that very question in and of itself, is all the deceiver needs. It was once said that curiosity killed the cat but as far as mankind, 70 times 7 cause loss of spirit; you can’t get that back. Lose your faith, change your soul, as one considers alternatives on shelf, stacked lies of disbelief, blind eyes opt options to try and define oneself. (foolish). If words are crossed, least leads to self-cognition, seek belief, choice, and uninitiated to further solidify your position. This is why your faith should stand bold, trust not your eyes to see, because the word of God, is the very essence, of why a rock is a rock and a tree is a tree.  

– Reginald O’ Gibson 


Regardless of any narratives created, I’m not hating anyone; period! We that are of good, are far more plentiful and in unity than the people (currently)holding the mic, camera and or platform would like to admit. Why? Because the rape of ‘supply and demand’ goes hand to hand with divide and conquer, which beckons the need for hate, segregation and fear. Deceitful/demonic entities need is for people to develop a common enemy amongst their neighbors, family and countrymen. And what better, more efficient way of creating anxiety, votes and separatism, than to stimulate and prey upon the indoctrinated biases of mankind’s insecurities. I – will- not – conform – to hate. I know there’s a history. I know there are differences but even more so, I know myself, my purpose and my destiny. I was born in love and I will die in love. And as such, ultimately I will rejoin awe-inspiring love throughout eternity.

God speed upon your journey. – Reginald

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The Meaning  

February 3, 2023  

“To empower her is to honor God and the mystery of the covenant they share. Without her, there is no world of sustainability, no future to claim nor fruition of purpose (within our understanding of time). Likened to a seed placed upon solid rock, there will be no growth, harvest, or fruit to bear as witness to a life of intelligent design and meaning. As men, we are the soil, vast with nutrient, vigor, and foundational strength. As such, never forget to be vulnerable unto her accepted gifts, as well as intuition, and eternal womb. Empower her essence, love her, and protect that which is God’s greatest creation; the woman.”   

– Reginald 


This is not who I am, nor how I look or feel for that matter. It’s just an image. An image captured to stimulate a momentary assumption, based off what the perceiver is willing to accept or deny. It’s just an image. Unlike the curated narratives of media conglomerates, I proclaim nor suggest nothing. I have no agendas, no prophetic analogies nor the zeal to influence anyone. It’s just a picture my wife took on the whelm of a moment, whilst I contemplated the complexities of vegan tacos. If I could derive anything of potential value as a takeaway, it would be the reminder that per the accumulation of one’s actions (not captions, words or intent), are the only true sources of one’s measurable means. Even then, to be brutally honest, you’ll never (truly) know what’s on a person’s mind; especially when tacos adds to the bane of societal complexities.

– Reginald

Challenge Accepted: Again, and Again . . .

I see temptation as a blessed opportunity to prove worth per the mercy bestowed upon my life. Yes, I’ve been told  countless times “we all fall short of the glory of God”but as for myself, my calling and spiritual embedment, short is not the measure of my faith, strength nor prayer life.  And as such, I remain bold, steadfast and diligent, as I walk through the valley; no excuses. -Reginald