What did you expect? 

One’s expectations doesn’t guarantee the fruition of one’s hopes and desires.

Don’t accept people for who they are, If you’re not willing to deal with the consequences of their results or actions. 

A man is not a man, if he’s not the man of your dreams. Nor is the body of a woman, if he’s not in love with her soul.

“Look deeper than insecurities and maybe you’ll find, wisdom in choices are reflective of one’s mind. Raise the bar! Don’t stop, don’t settle for less, but know this requires; your absolute best.”

If a man or woman says “you complete me,” tread carefully! Although cute an romantically understood, this old schooled movie mentality has fooled many innocent hearts. In other words, yesterday’s romantic afterthought may be an indicator or sign of denial “in need.” Furthermore ending up as your today’s reality drama. Something to honestly consider, either way it’s your cup to fill or empty. Think about it.🤔


How can two become one, if both glasses are only filled halfway?😉

*Seek and you’ll find!

Reginald O’Neal Gibson



The diligent road to success, inspiration and happiness is far less traveled than most people realize. Why? Because those who follow, often becomes stuck behind the inflated ego’s of another’s destined purpose.

God didn’t create you to become a follower of other people’s success or ideas thereof, nor by the worldly standards of idolatry. You were embodied to wonderfully express the best version of yourself within God’s favor. 

I’m not saying it’s a bad thing to follow that which inspires, but it’s imperative to know when to get off the train! In this, people can discover, rediscover and blaze their own trails to personal success.

This is why as an author, chef and motivational speaker I’m NOT looking for followers, but rather believers!

With that said, 

Believe in yourself! 

Believe in a higher power!

Believe in your spouse, family or friends who could greatly benefit from your positive input.

Believe there is special purpose in your life

until it manifests as evident.

Lastly, believe in hope, love and prayer, especially during the difficulties and circumstances of life.

Call to action! 

Do you know someone who’s struggling with belief, personal success or positive lifestyle change? 

Contact me at zoeylifesite.com or facebook.com/pg

Reginald O’Neal Gibson


Simplistic at best, but made with heartfelt integrity for the warmth, nourishment and healing of the body.

Insatiably focused, with an emphasis on functional awareness for the “mind, body and spirit.” (365 days a year).

This recipe as with all others, resides within your heart. Express it, for life!

Happy “Expression of Love Day.”😉




So many soapboxes on which to stand, but all are fragile upon quickened sand. 

We choose, we shout, cause divide between us, but praise God for the rock of our salvation; his name is . . .

If you said it in your mind, he’s in your heart; soapbox that.😉

R. Gibson


The best revenge is to love thy enemy, God will handle the rest.
And here’s why!
Fighting ignorance with ignorance, only facilitates one’s weakness to remain on the level of the ignorant.
Here’s the takeaway!
“Turning the other cheek” is for YOUR physical, mental and spiritual well-being!
How so?
The stress, retaliation and anxiety you’ll save will without doubt, strengthen your moral and environmental character.
In turn, this action will fuel the energy needed to leave behind, that which once held you in a place of contentment, enablement and low self-esteem.
Those who are of higher consciousness understands, only a fool “fights fire with fire” when the living well of water runs deep. Also, “sticks and stones” pales in comparison to words of hate manifested within an unguarded mind.  
Take this knowledge upon your journey and remember, there’s MORE to you than your enemy’s ability to comprehend. And this also goes for the enemy from within!
Wait, no more; “go ye therefore!”(Matthew 28:19)

Reginald O’Neal Gibson


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Today is the day you make the change, act on your idea and choose the path that will define YOUR greatness! Not only for your name sake, but that of your legacy, family, children and those closest to your goal set. Just decide! Grow and produce bountifully in all that you do; in Christ’s name. And above all the fear, doubt or naysayers, remember; God remains within the creation of your purpose.

I’ll see you there!

Reginald O’Neal Gibson